Friday, December 9, 2011

Just Like JB

The Friday after Thanksgiving, while so many are at the Black Friday sales, our family is out at High Star Tree Farm cutting down a Christmas tree.  This has been our family tradition for years.  We end up back at the house and pull down the 800 boxes of Christmas decorations from the attic.  The last few years, I've noticed that Dawn, my wife, places most of the ornaments on tree, relishing the meaning packed in each one, many of which were made by the little hands of our children.  One of my favorite things is when Dawn sets up all the years of our family pictures with Santa.  Seventeen years running the kids have gone to see Santa, sat on his lap, and had their picture taken.  I was looking through them this year and choking up at how time flies and how big the kids are now.

This year, though, right in the mix of all that emotion, a few days after setting up the tree, one of my twitter feeds catches my attention.  The hook line simply says:  "You, Santa and a grenade launcher!  Check the story out!"  Naturally, who's not going to, right?  So I clicked on the link and opened a news story about how people and families with kids of all ages, right down to the littlelest children are taking up an invitation from a gun club in Arizona to have their picture taken with Santa while holding AK-47 assault rifles and grenade launchers!  In some ways it's comical.  And in other ways it's sad.  But really in all ways it's disturbing.  The mixing of Santa, and Jesus at this season and automatic assault rifles and grenade launchers just seems beyond the pale.

Then right in the mix of all that emotion, later in the week, I open up to Mark's telling of the coming of John the Baptist.  I realized in an instant that John's message really resonated with me.  Mark's version of John's teaching is pretty tame.  In Matthew John is harsher and more no-nonsense.  He says there, You brood of vipers!  Who warned you to flee from the wrath that is coming?  The axe is laid at the root of the tree, and every tree that does not bear good fruit will be cut down!  John's message resonates with me in a moment when Santa, Jesus and grenade launchers with little children are the mental model for at least part of the world.

That being said, Mark's version of John, though still rough around the edges, depicts a softer and less acostic John.  Mark has barely begun his message when he bluntly announces, "John the Baptist appeared in the wilderness," starting things out with a bang.  John simply appears and immediately begins to deliver his insistent and unwavering message about repentance. 

John is described visually as a prophet like Elijah.  He is dressed in camels hair and eats locusts and wild honey.  We picture him with a rather wild, untamed look in his eyes.  In most ways, John is not like anyone we know.  We don't identify with John from some database of people in our lives who are like him.  He's far removed from anything we want for ourselves.

But don't miss John's significance.  As we approach Christmas, look beyond the funny clothes and his strange diet and his wild-eyed stare and hear more than just strong words to straighten up and fly right.  Because I really think John offers something for the way we should understand our lives, who are committed to follow Jesus.

There's an old story that is told...

...about a little girl whose pastor asked her, "What is a saint?"  She thought about the stanined-glass windows in the church and said, "A saint is somebody whom the light shines through."

This was john's life through and through.  He was somebody through whom the light of God shined through.  If we reproduce John in ourselves, then this would surely sum it up:  To be people whom the light of Christ's love shines through.  John, truly, is a saint in the best sense of that word in at least three ways:

He Goes Before Christ
John, first, by his very being is someone who goes before Christ.  He doesn't simply come before Christ in terms of time.  That, of course, would be impossible for us.  He goes before Christ in terms of perparing the way.  In some parts of the Church, John is not know as the Baptist.  He's know as John the Forerunner.  John is someone who goes before Christ to prepare the way for the presence of Christ in the world. 

What would that look like for us to prepare the way for the presence of Christ in people's lives, in oppressive contexts and unjust systems?  John forces us to ask that question of ourselves.  He is as Isaiah 40 says, A voice of one calling in the wilderness, 'Prepare the way for the Lord, make straight paths for him.'  John stands for us as a testiment to how we should live before a world that needs to experience the grace of God's transformative power.  We are called by John's life to be people who prepare the way of the Lord.

We do this by living a life of love.  That's difficult for us to hear properly, or at least hear it in a way that gives it any teeth.  Most of us hear about love from Hallmark or the cover of gossip magazines displayed at the counters of grocery stores.  But we prepare the way of the Lord by living a life of love.  Living a life of love means giving yourself to others in service in the same spirit of Jesus when he said, I have come not to be served, but to serve

FCC, along with several other churches, has been in a relationship with two at-risk elementary schools in our vicinity.  Mostly what we do is serve them.  We gather twice a year and paint, clean, plant and build.  It's not fancy.  John wasn't fancy.  But it is a way for us to prepare people to experience Christ in other ways that are transformative

He Speaks the Truth in Love
John never minced with words.  He told it like he saw it.  His words called out people's lives because he speaks the truth in love.  This is another way we can embrace the life of John for ourselves:  To be people who have learned to speak the truth in love well.

It hardest to emulate John in this way.  Most of us are far too ready to call out people's mistakes before looking at our own.  But John shows us that there is a way to live that speaks the truth in love.  Many times we speak it without ever saying a word.  It looks like the faithful choices we make in the face of a world that is more often confused about what should happen.

Speaking the truth in love requires us to see the other.  It requires us to see the heartbreak of others.  We speak the truth in love well when the one receiving it knows that he or she has been seen.  John's voice out of the wilderness acknowledges that the people of Israel have been seen, that the Lord has not forgotten them, that God in all power and splendor sees them and desires more for their lives.

This is speaking the truth in love when it is done well.  It calls people to new ways of being and opens them to new lifegiving possibilities.  It may judge, but it never condemns.  It may fall like a ton of bricks, but is always there to re-build, restore and renew.

He Points Beyond Himself to Christ
There is another way we are to copy John.  John also lives in a way that always points beyond himself.  A famous Orthodox icon called simply St. John the Baptist shows John looking away off the canvas, if you will.  He is ostensibly looking at Jesus.  It is a hard icon to focus on, because it doesn't hold our gaze.  John's hands in the icon keep scooping our attention back over to Jesus.  It is like a visual depiction of John's own words, Jesus must increase, and I must decrease.

John's life, like ours should be, points beyond himself and to what is most important - Jesus, the Christ.  John is most himself when he is pointing beyond himself to the one greater who comes after him, whose sandals he is not worthy to stoop down and untie.

So, don't miss John's significance.  He stands as an example for us in at least these three ways.

One last thing:  It is important to note that John doesn't come by all this easily, nor will we.  He doesn't do all this without some real doubt and struggle.  John will at one point in his life send his own disciples to Jesus and have them ask, Tell us.  Are you The One or should we look for another?

Jesus responds, Tell John what you see...the blind receive their sight, the lame walk, those who have leprosy are cured, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, and the good news is preached to the poor.  It's after this that we do not hear anything else about John, except that he is beheaded by Herod.  A sense lingers that John fades into the background for good.  His work is finished.  He has served well.

May such be said of us.

Friday, December 2, 2011

Become a Giver

It was about 10 years ago that I finally admitted to myself that I'm not very good with money.  In the division of labor in our home, the month to month maintenance of deposits and debits falls to me.  I have to be honest.  I absolutely loath doing the bills every months.  As a result, the receipts pile up higher and higher until I've turned a mountain into Mt Everest!  Watching over this wears me out.  I worry about it constantly.  It really bothers me that others seem to do it so well.  And no amount of Jesus' teaching to NOT worry about tomorrow seems to aleviate my anxitey.

About five years ago, I decided it was time to put all that anxiety to rest.  After years of fooling myself and trying to fool others, and years of constantly going two steps forward and two steps back, I became honest with myself and asked for help.  Though the bills still don't light my fire, I have found some real freedom in getting the financial portion of  our lives together. Jesus teaches that if we get the financial portion of our lives in order, then a lot of the other portions of our lives and faith will grow and mature deeply and significantly.

In today's climate, the stewardship of our financial resources is a pertinent subject for anyone.  It's pertinent, because let's face it, fear and uncertainty fill the economic air we breath.  Unemployment hovers at a stifling rate.  Fear that the world markets could collapse tomorrow linger ever so near.  We hear about Europe.  Things are so tenuous there that what solutions they are proposing to bailout Europe's economy could falter in an instant if Greece's collapses.  Occupy Wall Street, a movement of the so-called 99% who are fed up with the abuses of the 1%, is gaining momentum and growing more violent.  Interestingly, in my opinion, it's kind of telling on Americans that those who consider themselves to be the 99% are really the 1% when we think globally.

So, whether it's the European markets, the total collapse of the economy in Greece, the U.S unemployment rate, or just personal deficits, a pervasive anxiety strangles many of us.  What I have gotten present to in the last few years is that the way through is the simple and practical habits of money management mixed with the discipline of delayed gratitfication and a healthy dose of the circumstances of the poorest of the poor.  Really, the stewardship of our financial resources is a simple spiritual practice of managing our God given gifts and resources, so that we might live into the heart of our commitments to love God and love our neighbor.

The turning point for me came when I took the 13 week course called Financial Peace University, a course developed by Dave Ramsey.  We offer it every year starting in January.  It's a course that offers participants hope and practical, manageable steps.  Here are five steps that are offered in the course.  I offer them as motivation for you to think and pray about your giving and find healthy patterns financially and spiritually.

STEP 1:  Start an Emergency Fund
Starting out, everyone should have a beginning emergency fund of $1,000.  If you don't have that in the bank, then that's the first step.  What does this do to help?  It means that we don't have to rely on Visa and Mastercard for emergencies.  Proverbs says, Wise people have stores of choice food and oil, but foolish people devour everything they have.  Find a way to put $1,000 in savings that's accessible so that when the car breaks down, you can pay for it. 

STEP 2:  Live on a Budget
Step two is to develop and live with a budget.  Dave Ramsey says, "A budget is simply telling your money where it is going to go instead of wondering where it went."  Just hearing that for the first time helped me.  Jesus said, Don't build a tower without first counting the cost, lest you get half way up and you are unable to finish and all who see you begin to mock you.  The good news is that having a budget takes the stress out of managing money, stress that has an impact in other areas of your lives.

STEP 3:  Get out of Debt!
The third step is to get out of debt.  The Bible says, The borrower is slave to the lender.  Experience the freedom of not owing anyone anything!  Dawn and I over the course of 3 years have paid off about $20K in debt.  We have a half car payment left.  This will only leave us owing on our house.  Now, we are moving on to a fully-funded emergency fund of 3-6 months of our salary in savings.  Do you know how liberating that is!!  Some of you do, and some of you could , if you change some of your behaviors and simply be disciplined.

STEP 4:  Invest Wisely
The fourth step is to invest wisely.  Proverbs says, Spread your portion to seven, Yes, to eight, because disaster may come upon the land.  Sounds like a land we are living in at present.  Gas prices up.  401Ks look more like 201Ks.  The best way to protect yourselves is to diversify, which simply means "Spread your portion to seven, Yes, to eight."  Three to six months of your salary needs to be in a savings account.  If you are fortunate enough to own your own home, then you have some of your investment in equity.  Fifteen percent of your income should go to retirement.  As you work through these steps, you find that there will be other money available to invest.  Invest wisely.

STEP 5:  Become a Giver
Becoming a giver is the goal of being a good stewardship of God's gracious resources.  To be in a place where your wealth can be an opportunity to expand the kingdom of God in ways where justice is done.  Wherever the poor are lifted up, wherever people are liberated from the forms of life that enslave them, wherever the broken-hearted are healed, wherever the captive is set free, there one finds the kingdom of God.  That's the goal!

I believe that everyone should be committed to giving some amount regularly and consistently over time.  Start somewhere.  What's true is that if you can live on 100 dollars a year, you can live on 90 dollars a year.  May the Lord bless you as you prayerful consider your giving!
PS:  This Sunday, December 4 and next Sunday, December 11, we are asking the members and friends of FCC Houston to declare their plan for giving in 2012.  This will be the amount that you plan to give to sustain the ministry of the church to bring people and ourselves into a vital relationship with Jesus.  It will be a declaration that is between you and God that we will ask you to share with us in a commitment card that you'll turn in as we engage a budgeting process for the church.
PSS:  This link provides some basic tools and materials to help you prepare.